<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Spontaneity’s Blog</title><description>Transform relationship anxiety into natural connection. Spontaneity helps ADHD adults maintain relationships through gratitude-based reminders, not task management. No shame spirals, just genuine care.</description><link>https://tryspontaneity.app</link><item><title>From 15,401 Reddit Posts: You&apos;re Not a Bad Friend</title><link>https://tryspontaneity.app/from-15401-reddit-posts-youre-not-a-bad-friend</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://tryspontaneity.app/from-15401-reddit-posts-youre-not-a-bad-friend</guid><description>I spent a week reading Reddit posts about ADHD and relationships. What I found across 15,401 upvotes wasn&apos;t just shared experience—it was shared pain. Here&apos;s why you&apos;re not a bad friend.</description><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>